It is the presence of judgement that defines anything as a disability. If we remove judgement, there is no labeling. Everything just is what it is. Man has a set of criteria for EVERYTHING and has defined what is “normal” and what is otherwise. Labels such as “Disability”, “ADD”, “ADHD”, “Autism”, “Bipolar”, “Schizophrenic”, and the list goes on and on almost endlessly, are words assigned to a set of behaviors that do not fit the criteria defined as “normal”.
Society has come to expect certain behaviors as acceptable and others as different. If someone behaves differently, then they earn a label that entitles them to have certain behaviors. Man has decided if they have such a label, then we can forgive them for their differences.
Unfortunately in our society if someone exudes different behaviors outside of what has been determined as “normal”, and they have not been given a label, then they are not accepted with love and understanding. Harsh judgement falls upon them causing self-esteem issues. If they have been given a label, stereotyping of their assigned condition often causes painful ridicule.
What can change all of this? LOVE. If we speak the language of LOVE, we accept everyone for who they are. LOVE is acceptance. When we don’t accept someone else, it is because there is a part of ourselves we don’t accept. The results of having a society with a set of standards we are to conduct ourselves under creates a vicious cycle within all of us to learn how to behave and what personality traits are acceptable.
What if we all fully LOVED ourselves for who we are? What if we fully LOVED others for who they are? What if we all knew and understood that LOVE IS ACCEPTANCE?
We could fully embrace who we are as an individual. We could fully accept others for their uniqueness. We would raise the vibrational frequency of all of mankind; therefore, having no need to define and judge everything. If LOVE were the predominate driving force behind all of man’s thoughts and actions, everything would be just as it is. Beautiful!